Eleanor Oliphant is Completely Fine: What I Thought

'I suppose one of the reasons we're all able to continue to exist for our allotted span in this green and blue vale of tears is that there is always, however remote it might seem, the possibility of change.' We tend to walk through life under the impression that most of us humans think and … Continue reading Eleanor Oliphant is Completely Fine: What I Thought

Wrecked: What I thought

I've finished my first read of 2019. It only took me five months - I was reading it on and off for a few months before that, too. But that doesn't influence what I thought of the book. Because I was focusing loads more on writing, rather than reading. So, here's what I thought of … Continue reading Wrecked: What I thought

Cook with me: MOIST cocoa-free chocolate cake

I already know what you're thinking: a cocoa-free chocolate cake? No cocoa powder in your cake? How does that work? Well, my friends, one day I had no cocoa powder in my cupboard but eggs that needed using and some love in my heart. Okay, that's silly. But I took a regular recipe for a … Continue reading Cook with me: MOIST cocoa-free chocolate cake

Running away

I run away from minor health complaints because I'm scared of spending money we don't have on medication. I run away from minor health complaints because I'm scared they could turn into something bigger. I run away from a hostile environment with my child so that he doesn't get hurt again. I run away from … Continue reading Running away

The How and Why of Self-Care

It’s 9:30pm and the children have finally been asleep for longer than 30 minutes. Or maybe it’s 9:30pm and you had to stay over at work for three hours too long, not seeing your partner since the evening before. You’ve had knock-back after knock-back lately – nothing seems to be making sense or improving. You’ve … Continue reading The How and Why of Self-Care

What are you writing?

I quit my job in travel retail back in February. There's never really one reason for quitting a job, is there? Like you could have a problem with your boss but wouldn't just quit over it: you would first try to resolve the problem. If the problem cannot be resolved, well that could be a … Continue reading What are you writing?